Hello all,
I met Mike three years ago. We fell in love very soon and we got married within a year. We had a great understanding in the beginning, but with time he slowly started ignoring me. I love him more than anything, but he doesn't like me anymore. He didn't directly say this, but I could feel it with his replies and ignorance. Recently I was pregnant and I gave birth to a girl child. When I was pregnant I didn't get that care or love which I was longing for. But I managed those hard days alone. Recently after giving birth he just came to look the baby and he just tapped my forehead and went away. I can't really understand what's in his mind. I had a difficult birth so I needed much care, but he didn't spare time for me. So I had to seek help from postpartum depression counselors Toronto (
http://www.newmummycompa...nnies-postpartum-doulas/ ). They are taking care of me and my baby more affectionately than him.
I have some health issues after pregnancy. I told him that I am not feeling well, but his response is just breaking my heart. He was very caring in the beginning, but now he is just like I don't care for you anymore. Even now I cannot hate him. I felt that I was a burden for him and told him that we should get divorced so that at least he'll be free and happy. But he said that he doesn't love anyone else and he doesn't want to leave us. I am totally confused. It looks like he hates me, but he doesn't want to leave me and at the same time he doesn't spend time with me or care for me. He is always near me, but I am alone. What shall I do now?? I am sure that if this continues, I'll surely die of depression. I still love him a lot and I need his love back. How shall I find what's in his mind?? How shall I overcome this situation??