I was married to a man who told me nothing but lies. He said he was ready to be stationed in Sydney when I met him, the longer I stayed, the more he gave excuses of why he couldn't leave yet. He knew I was late before I was and said that I was to have an abortion...That "should have been abortion" graduated high school tonight.

His family pressured me to marry him, my mother was a barmaid (who loved me dearly and worked her ass off, two jobs most of the time) and him and his family threatened to take my unborn child away from me if I did not marry this man...I was 18 and he was 20, so guess what I did. The first time he cracked my jaw, I had him arrested, our son was 9 months old. I stood my ground and had that three strike theory in my head because he was the father of my son. The last time I let him bully me, our third son was 3 months old and I left in a "blaze of glory" While my oldest son watched his father try to punch out a cop and well, that didn't end well for him.

I tried to work with him, I was always being the nice guy, having 3 sons and getting away from a tyrant...finally, he always screwed us. Tried to get us thrown out of safe havens to make us come back! I was diligent, full of love and hope for my sons and the refusal to "let him hurt us even more". I knew there was better than that, and it was up to me to stand up, be strong and show my boys how to be a "man"

I found love again, he had two children previous to us...I fell in love with him our first hang out because we could not stop talking about how awesome our babies are. He took on my boys without a second thought he was a beautiful soul! He lived for less than 5 years of us being together. Finally, a happy family my boys deserved..a mixed up brady bunch of sorts...It all got ripped away so quickly...all the while, my bully ex was cruising young girls, telling them things like...we died in a car accident, I cheated and ruined everything and said he beat me and it was all lies...I NEVER lied, ever...I didn't need even more stress! While quitting jobs every six weeks when child support would find him.

My husband passed away quickly, had a bad heart. He loved my sons as if they were his own and never, ever was a bully. We did have a beautiful daughter together to make our family complete. She was 18 months old when he left us, our kids were 1, 5, 7, 7, 8 and 9. I lost my mother and father within 6 months of my wonderful husbands death. Here comes the bully ex...

He owed over$23,000 in back child support...the state of ohio being all about fathers rights....it was the perfect conditions for a hurricane. He $$$ talked the boys into moving in with him, a new start, no heartbreak...they went, they needed a daddy, I don't blame them. The man they wanted to call daddy died.

My ex husband is receiving the social security benefits from my dead husband for my 3 boys, under his new wife name. My boys received the social security check because their real father hadn't helped with the boys in more than two years. He found out about the checks and pushed to right buttons to make me look crazy.. He now receives more than my daughter..its her father's money! and I pay child support.

There are many, many more horrible things to this story and I really should write a book about it so that I don't confuse so many when I try to give a few brief sentences to sum it up and get someone on my level with this.

He recently told my 14 year old son that he has aids and so do I, not true...He called me from las vegas to laugh at me after my mother and husband died, then had the nerve to tell me he wanted me back. I told his current wife on him, they were together 6 years but finally married her after I told on him. That's just the tip of the iceberg..

This man threw my son out of the house 3 months before graduation because he is dating a girl, who also graduates high school this month, because she has a baby. He told me that ever since his step dad died, all he has wanted to do was be a father and continue my husbands work...what kind of 18 year old thinks that way?!

I have called social security, they say county child support has to correct this financial problem, child support said they have no idea what is going on and to take it up with social security...I need a lawyer but have no idea where to begin. There is much much more to this story but I'm afraid no one will read this because it is so long already...

Any legit suggestions?

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