I’ve started dating this woman from Ukraine that I met on A Foreign Affair for quite some time now. She has all the traits I’ve always wanted in a woman but the only problem is that she’s not really sure about having kids yet.

I’ve tried to understand her since she’s a lot younger than me and hasn’t really tried being around an environment surrounded by kids yet. I’m well into my 40’s and I want to have children while I still can. My girlfriend and I have met twice so far. Once in Ukraine, and once here in the States. During those times, we’ve gotten to know each other better, each other’s needs and wants. I can personally say that we are both ready to settle down and can come across anything that crosses our way.

Her family and mine have given their blessings with taking our relationship to the next level. Before I pop the question, I cannot simply ignore this issue. I’ve already envisioned my future with her and in that vision, I see kids –my own kids. Financially, we’re ready but my girlfriend thinks we’re not yet there, emotionally.

She’s more into traveling around the world right now and enjoying what life has to offer us. I’m starting to panic, what if she’ll break up with me if I keep pushing the issue? What if I’m the one who has to decide whether or not we push through? Is she keeping something from me? What if she can’t biologically have children? Is she not serious with me and our relationship? HELP!!!