I've been married for almost 6 years. My husband was sweet and subdued at first. We talked about everything. I couldn't get enough of him and missed him during the day. I couldn't wait to get home to see him. We talked before getting married about having kids. Once we were married he changed his mind and said he didn't want kids. He also began to lose his temper frequently. He yells at me, breaks stuff, slams doors. Usually, I feel, like it's over something small. This morning it was because he had to get clean socks out of the dryer. Previously it's been because I didn't put his jeans back in the right place.
He is adament about not wanting kids but I do very much. I'd like to adopt, but he wants none of it. He also doesn't seem to find me attractive. We have sex maybe twice a year. He never acknowledges me or my body(which I work hard on!). I want kids, I want sex and I don't want to be yelled at!! I've tried to talked to him about his temper and he just gets angry and won't discuss it. He buys me a lot of stuff: shoes, clothes, books, etc.. I don't want stuff. I want his attention. He has occasionally threatened me that if I took his dog, he'd kill me. Other times, he's nice and we get a long and I can actually talk to him. I want to leave, I'm afraid I'm missing out on someone who is right for me and wants the things that I want. I'm getting ready to start a career and he has been less than supportive about it other tha the fact that I will make more money. I don't know if I need divorce but I also don't think I love him anymore. Enough is enough.