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I left my husband 2 weeks ago. I started this post going into 9 years of crazy stuff. I had so much stuff I could vent about. My husband put me through a lot of crazy shit, but I deleted it. I need to forget not rehash in order to grow. I just don't know what to do when he keeps trying to do all the things I asked him to do before but he never would do until now that I left. I want you to know this wasn't just the normal story of a wife getting bored of a good husband. There were 9 years of serious things he did to me repeatedly and I kept going back to him. He never hit me. But he was so manipulative, distant, and ruined our lives. He ruined us so badly beyond repair. Even someone who always wants to see the best in someone and keep giving them chances has a limit. May have taken me 9 years but I am finally there. I kept wanting him like a drug. He can be so sweet :( How do I fight this. He isn't begging me. But he's doing everything I wanted. I want to go back so bad but I am making myself not feel anything at go all because I know it's a horrible pattern. I can't help but feel sad when he's sad. Not sure if that is real sadness on his part since every action of his indicates he's a narcissist. I think he wants me back for his ego not for us or our daughter. We are getting along in the divorce agreements etc so far but I don't know how much of that is a show to get me back
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Hi, Im so new to this... I'm from an abusive marriage with a 4 yr old. It's now been 4 yrs. I was rewarded full custody just last month. And now filing for a divorce. You seem on the fence about your feelings. There is alot at stake, with lots to lose and you need to be completely ready because its very tough. It seems like youve left but your heart is still there. All the "I think", "I dont know" is what you really need to work on. How do you picture your life with him 10yrs, 15yrs, or when its just you and him because the kids are off to college. You really need to weigh thing out. Make a list, pros and cons or date him.... I'm sorry for your pain. Stay strong.
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Hi, You left your husband, but it takes a lot of time to calm your mind. Because divorce is the emotional process. It gives a lot of pain, time and loss money. If you want to recover your divorce amicably then Wevorce is the best online legal technology provider. Here you will read Wevorce reviews here at Wdreview. Edited by user Monday, July 25, 2016 11:39:47 AM(UTC)
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Yes its better to leave your husband and go for the divorce. For any other suggestion just take the suggestion from the Thiessen Law Firm. Just look at http://thetexastrialattorney.com .
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