My husband was like that too during two years since I gave birth to our first child. I was trying my best to try to fix things up but he always found ways to be away from home and from us. I wanted us to spend time alone together like weekend at the hotel as we live on an island Mauritius but he always find excuses. Last year he went for business at Paris and I started investigating. I learned that he had external affairs during 3 years with so many girls mostly that I knew or who worked together with him. We got separated when he came back and one year has elapsed now and he is struggling to have me back home.
He gives presents and little gifts to me but tomorrow, we are going for our second appeal at the court for divorce.
Even, if I can see that he is making an effort for me, I can talk and even have dinner sometimes with him when I take my daughter there for the weekend.
But I cannot erase what he has done to me, no birthdays, no holidays, no special days and all the pictures of these girls with whom he spent the 3 last years.
I live alone with my daughter of 3 years since 1 year now, I bought my car and planning to have our own house as poject for the forecoming 3 years.
I cannot think about returning back to him, he betrayed my trust.
I cannot think about trusting someone else and loving as much as I loved my husband.
So if you can catch up your couple, do it.
If he wants you to be better, he is going to do his best too.
Cheers ladies.