HELLO THERE!
I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH A MAN WHO IS 54 YEARS OLD (I AM 25) AND HE IS DIVORCED SINCE 5 YEARS WITH 2 SONS(18 & 20 YEARS OLD). WE ARE DATING SINCE 1 YEAR AND 3 MONTHS.
I HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM,HE SAYS HE LOVES ME TOO AND WE SPEND EVERY DAY TOGETHER AFTER HIS WORK. I AM A STUDENT.
HE INTRODUCED ME TO HIS FAMILY FROM THE START(MOM,DAD,SISTER,FRIENDS,WORK COLLEAGUES),EXCEPT HIS 2 SONS FROM WHICH HE IS HIDING WITH ME. I SHOWED UNDERSTANDING AND PATIENCE WITH THAT.I ASKED HIM IN THE FIRST MONTHS WHY IS HE HIDING WITH ME FROM HIS SONS,HE GOT ANGRY AND TOLD ME IT IS NOT THE RIGHT TIME,AND THAT WE HAVE TO LET THE RELATIONSHIP TO MATURE FIRST. I RESPECT THAT.2 MONTHS AGO HE TOLD ME WITHOUT ME PRESSING HIM,THAT THIS CAN NO LONGER EXIST,AND THAT HE IS THINKING SERIOUSLY TO TELL THEM ABOUT ME. BUT,WHEN THE TIME CAME(WE WENT ON HOLIDAY ),AND THE 18 YEARS OLD SON CALLED HIM AND ASKED HIM WITH WHOM HE IS IN HOLIDAYS HE ANSWERED: "I'M NOT ALONE,I'M WITH A FEMALE FRIEND OF MINE......HUHHH AND GENERALLY WITH LOTS OF FRIENDS." IN THAT MOMENT I WAS FURIOUS,BUT ONCE AGAIN I WANTED TO SHOW UNDERSTANDING.
NOW HE TOLD ME THAT WHEN WE WILL GO TO SEE HIS SON(20) IN THE OTHER TOWN WHERE HE IS STUDYING,HE WILL NOT HAVE OTHER CHOICE BUT TELL HIM THE TRUTH.
I RESPECT HIM FOR BEING CAUTIOUS WITH HIS SONS,BUT I THINK THEY ARE OLD ENOUGH NOT TO BLAME HIS FATHER BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP AND ALSO IT DOESN'T FEEL RIGHT FOR ME ,ON THE OTHER PART .

WHY IT IS SO HARD FOR HIM TO TELL THEM ABOUT ME? IF HE DOESN'T LOVE ME WHY HE DON'T LET ME GO?WHY DOES HE INSIST ON LOVING ME AND TRYING NOT TO UPSET ME AND BEING NICE WITH ME ?

PS1: MY MOTHER KNOWS ABOUT HIM , BUT I HAVEN'T INTRODUCED THEM..STILL

THANK YOU!